It’s all about understanding self

priyanka
4 min readFeb 4, 2023

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I am sure we all feel the same as mentioned above in the picture.

We all are running in same direction, our paths can be different but destination is oneness.

What are we here for?

When we start to look for deeper meaning of life, we think about its origin and creator.

  • Whose idea was it to create this world?
  • Is this drama already fixed or we are free to choose our path?
  • Who is going to judge our actions on judgement day?
  • Am I trapped in this play of karmas or there is some other reality I am unaware of?

And so many related queries continuously inundate our minds and keep us entangled in similar web of thoughts.

I was also intrigued by similar questions and my interest in knowing the truth ( Who Am I ?) was pretty intense.

Through years of research, reading, listening and practices I m slowly able to make peace with my unsettled mind. 🤗

What I observed and applied in my life over a period of time, am going to share with you all. I hope it will bring some peace, love and light in your life too —>💓

  • Life is spent more in head than ♥ heart unconsciously, but on the contrary let the heart rule the roost for a change💗
  • Our thoughts are entangled past memories being played time and again by an automatic play of emotions. This leads to conditioning of thoughts hence behaviour.
  • Over a period of time we develop a rigid pattern of belief system which is tough to penetrate with new informations, because we have already accepted it as our final reality🙆

This is the toughest part for our conditioned minds to accept anything out of our habitual system.. And we can learn only when we leave our old patterns behind and be open to new possibilities.

Once we start to realize that we know or remember very little and there is a vast unending sea of wisdom beyond what we have been taught so far, we automatically allow a major shift in our thinking and patterns.🤗

Our perception plays a very important role in shaping our thought process.

Our body is a very intelligent vehicle. Everything is working in perfection and harmony within us.

But with passage of time, we have destabilised the balance between body and mind. It’s incoherence in our thoughts, which leads to disturbance in our lives.

Once we learn to understand this working of mind, it will be easy to overcome many problems which we face because of our lack of awareness.

When surface of any water body is calm and clear, we can easily see through it. This is exactly how our consciousness evolve.

We need to clear the fog of our habitual thinking and conditioned belief system, so as to look beyond a set approach to life.

Some practical ways I prefer to follow 🙋…

  • Self introspection at regular interval keeps our thoughts checked and balanced.
  • We must feed our system with some thought provoking books. Without changing our old belief pattern, we can’t bring any change in our current thinking process.
  • We should talk to people who are different than usual crowd and live fearlessly and happily. They are the one who are busy in exploring life. Never go after one’s who spread fear and garner hate for others in their hearts.
  • Try to spend some time alone with nature🌱. Observe it carefully, there is a healing effect in nature which we realise only after we feel it.
  • Sit in silence for few minutes.😌 Just be an observer. Let thoughts come and go. Do not judge or contemplate over them. Make it a daily practice for at least 10 mnts.
  • Try to look at a situation from a perspective of a detached observer sometime. You will find a new approach to deal with test and tribunals of life.
  • Keep self busy in activities which makes you happy instead of following a unhappy crowd. I choose books, painting or gardening over spending time with those who are constantly criticising and complaining but aren’t ready to work upon self.

Our first responsibility is towards self. World will be happy only when I Am Happy 😀

Before contemplating of bringing change in outer world first grow a beautiful garden within your own heart. Then automatically your fragrance will enrich other’s lives and bring smile on their faces.. 🤗

We can turn any pain into an opportunity, only if we are conscious enough to understand life.

We are the dreamers..💃We make it happen because we believe in. 💕💕💕

Love and Light

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priyanka

In search of finding key to ultimate happiness so that I can cherish and share it with every being on earth. Book reading and self exploration is my passion.